My plan/His plan

OK. So tomorrow, my baby (She turns 21 next week.) leaves for Washington state. She is driving alone. I SO wanted Jeff to go with her and then fly back. SO wanted that to happen. Then, the Lord said to me, "So you're willing to trust Jeff with her safety, but you're not okay if I go with her."......Oh. Well....."Or perhaps you're not comfortable with the plan I have in place for her trip." Ummm........I really wasn't looking at it like that.......you have a plan? "Of course, it may cause her some discomfort." Discomfort? "But she will learn of me. I will reveal Myself to her." Discomfort? What kind of discomfort? Is this necessary? "She must need me before she will understand my place in her life." Yes, but......I don't want her to have pain. "Pain? Like the pain I suffered for her sake on the cross?" Well...okay. So her pain would have a purpose? To bring her closer to you? "Always, my plans have a purpose. Always it is my desire to bring my children closer to me." So her temporary discomfort would ultimately bring comfort, joy, peace.....I get it. You love her, don't you? "With an everlasting commitment that you will never understand." Take care of my baby, Lord.